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I am in quite a happy mood right now. :) Sometimes I wonder if I have bipolar disorder. Hehehe. But then again, with my Little One, its always happy happy happy. She just has the magic in her to set things right somehow. :)

So yes, I kinda had a horrible Sat. Started off with a big fight with someone.. And then, a chaotic evening that has almost ended an important friendship, I think, and a night that just made me feel lousy head to toe. And then, as usual, Sunday was just a day full of reflections and trying to find possible reasons for all these and just somehow making myself feel better. Well, sadly, it didn't work this time.

Not until just awhile ago, when my dear Little One suddenly got into a really happy and playful mood and started laughing out loud at every single thing!Like really, "Heh Heh Heh!" It was the loudest laughter ever from her! We were just staring in awe. And immediately, everything seemed better! I cant describe the feeling I get each time she does something new. Its just so fascinating. Just like how it was in the video I uploaded of her sitting all on her own for the very first time. :) :)

And then Vaissh called to say she and Hemma are coming to visit on Wed. So long since I saw them the last! So excited. :)

And yes, its really amazing how from family and friends to strangers and enemies, everyone is crazy about my Little One. And thanks to this, the fact that, just that one person isn't, doesn't seem to matter at all. :)

Lots of expenses next month. I am starting solids once she is 6 months. So, gotta get so many stuff for that like the high chair and solid foods and ingredients. And then I gotta sew her suit for her 6th month :) And work is starting soon. And then yes, the normal survival expenses for both me and her. Hmm. :)

Humans are really great pretenders. Including myself. I wonder how we do it. Pretending to be happy or sad, pretending to be angry or cool, pretending to be a good friend, pretending to be in love, and many more. I guess there is always an objective to our pretence. I don't think anyone does it for fun. Cos it takes an effort to even pretend. There must be something we wanna achieve, or get from it. Pretending isn't the issue, its that something that we want. It shouldnt be a bad one. Cos then, its wrong. As for me, I know my pretence are for nothing wrong. If something good comes out of this pretence, why not? :)

My helper's name is Myenavathi. :) She has two daughters and their names are Aananthakanni and Ithayakanni. She has one grandson and his name is, Neethibathi. :D

And the best part is, today she came to me and told me in tamil, " I have a new name for your daughter! My own name for her!" And when I asked what, she said, " Inbakanni". :O :O

Hahaha. I like her. She is nice. I think I can say we have had a million of helpers, and very few of them leave happy memories in my heart. And I am quite sure, Myena will be one of them. Not for anything but just for the way she takes care of Little One. :)

So yes, I finally made up my mind after thinking for months. I like the way it is, at the very least, I feel much much more secured this way. And thats why, I have decided on that too. My options look good, so why not? Especially since, most importantly, it benefits her :) You can start counting your days my dear. People who do wrong things, don't remain happy forever. Somehow, we will always have to pay for it, in one way or another. ;)

I have already gotten the best ever in this. I am not settling for anything lesser than what has been the best. If you really want it, beat the best. ;)

I know. No I am not fickle, I just contradict. :)